Monday, October 11, 2021

Sincerity and Readiness to Follow Jesus

Homily: 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle B

         Friends, today, in our Gospel reading, once again we get this wonderful and very familiar story of the rich young man.  For me, this story exemplifies the very human life and ministry of Jesus.  In our familiarity with this story, however, we might miss the human aspects of it, which make it so real and relatable to our lives today.  And so, I’d like to highlight some of these aspects today in an effort to help us see how this story can illuminate and inspire our discipleship today.

         First, let’s begin just looking at the situation.  The reading begins by telling us that “Jesus was setting out on a journey”.  Let’s think for a moment about what it’s like for us when we “set out on a journey”.  Typically, this means that we’ve made plans, prepared everything that we will need during our journey, planned out how long it will take to get to our destination, and so have decided on a time to “set out” on the way so that we arrive on time.  Imagine now that you have everything packed up and are ready to leave.  Just then, a car pulls up to the house and someone gets out to ask a question.  Wouldn’t you be a little frustrated?  I know that I would!  “What is this all about?” I’d ask myself.  “Doesn’t this person see that I’m leaving?”  Then this selfish attitude would lead me to give the most simple and direct answer I could give, hoping that it would satisfy the person so that I could begin my journey.

         Although we know that Jesus didn’t suffer from the same selfishness that we must suffer with every day, he was still human like us.  Therefore, it’s safe to imagine that his first response to this man who approaches him as he is setting out on this journey is a “hurried” response that he hopes will satisfy the question so that he can begin his journey without further delay.  “What must I do to inherit eternal life?” the man asks.  Jesus’ response is the most simple and direct: keep the commandments.

         When the man responds, however (“all of these I have observed from my youth”), Jesus senses something deeper in him.  He senses that this man recognizes that eternal life is more than observing commandments and that there should be something personal about it.  “But what must I do to inherit eternal life.”  Having sensed this, Jesus stops, forgets his journey for a moment, and gives the man his full attention.

         There are two things that I believe this aspect of the story reveals to us.  First, it is that Jesus relates to us on a very human level.  Yes, he is the King of the Universe and so must be respected as such; but he is also human, like us, and so can be approached as we approach someone close to us: with familiarity and trust.  Second, is that Jesus will respond to us according to the sincerity with which we approach him.  If we approach Jesus like the scribes and Pharisees did—seeking always to test him—then Jesus will respond as he did to them, with harsh words.  If we approach like the man in today’s Gospel reading did—sincerely seeking the truth and the will of God—then Jesus will respond as he did to him, with care and attention.  In sum: Jesus is always on the move; but if we approach him with sincerity and a desire for truth, he will respond with care and attention.  Therefore, let us take care of how we approach him!

         Next, let’s look at the man in the story.  As we’ve seen, he approaches Jesus with sincerity.  He asks a question—perhaps the most important question that anyone could ask: “what must I do to inherit eternal life?”—and he was not satisfied by the simple answer.  He senses that there must be a deeply personal answer to this question.  Thus, his question is a question of vocation: “what am I called to do to inherit eternal life?”  He recognizes both that he has to do something and that this “something” is not something that he invents by himself.  Rather, it’s something that is revealed by God.

         This is definitely a great witness for us.  How often do we approach Jesus in prayer with this attitude?  Perhaps, like me, you’ve already embraced your vocation: me as a priest, you as a husband or wife, a father or mother.  Nonetheless, as we live these vocations, we come to many moments in which we need to return to Jesus and ask once again, “what must I do?”  The danger in those moments is that we rely on ourselves to generate the answer.  We forget to run to Jesus, as this man did, to seek the answer that is beyond us: the one revealed by God.  Our prayer must be deeply personal in this way: taking to him the most difficult and distressing questions in our hearts and seeking his answers, not our own.

         Finally, we must also look at the man’s response.  Jesus, seeing that this man was seeking a deeper, more personal response, gives it to him and invites him to sell his possessions, give the money to the poor, and then to follow him.  We don’t know what answer the man may have been anticipating, but it seems like this answer certainly wasn’t one of them.  The man was rich.  Perhaps he never imagined that inheriting eternal life would mean the abandoning of his riches in this life.  Having heard this, he turned away sad: imagining all that he would have to lose to inherit eternal life.

         I think that there are two lessons in this witness for us: one obvious and one hidden.  The obvious lesson is that we must be careful not to allow our worldly possessions to possess us.  In other words, we must be careful not to become so attached to the things of this world, that they become obstacles to following Jesus into heaven.  The more secure we feel because of our many possessions, the less ready we are to leave them all behind to follow Jesus into eternal life.  Thus, Jesus’ stern warning: “How hard it is for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God!”

         This is why almsgiving—selling what we don’t need and giving to the poor—is such a great safeguard: it keeps our hearts detached from our wealth so that we remain ready to follow Jesus when he calls.  The rich man in the story had not practiced almsgiving.  Thus, he was distraught when Jesus revealed that he must give up his possessions in order to follow him into eternal life.  His heart had become too attached to his wealth.  Our regular commitment to giving alms can prevent our possessions from possessing us.

         The hidden lesson in the man’s response to Jesus’ instruction is this: whether we like Jesus’ answer, we must receive it as the answer.  Here’s what I mean.  In the story, we know the rich man’s sincerity when, after Jesus instructs him to sell his possessions, give to the poor, and follow him, the man goes away sad.  In other words, the man believed what Jesus told him.  He was not ready to accept it, of course, but he believed Jesus, nonetheless.  How often do we seek a response in prayer (or advice from a trusted guide) and, having received an answer that we don’t like, dismiss the answer?  When we do this, we demonstrate that we were insincere: that is, that we really only wanted the answer we wanted to hear, not the true answer.

         When we seek answers to life’s most difficult and distressing questions, we must be ready to receive the answer: even if it is an answer that we’re not ready to accept.  This is the way of sincerity.  When we seek the answers in sincerity, only then we will discover the truth that our hearts desire. ///

         As I said at the beginning, this is a wonderful and very real story to which we can relate so much of our efforts to live as disciples of Jesus.  I encourage you to read this passage in chapter 10 of Saint Mark’s gospel again this week and use it as an examination of conscience.  Ask yourself these questions, “Do I approach Jesus in prayer with sincerity?”, “Do I seek his answer and not only a confirmation of my own?”, “Am I practicing almsgiving so as to be ready to follow Jesus, wherever he calls me?”, and, “Will I accept Jesus’ answer, even if I’m not ready to follow it?”  Regardless of the answers, let us remember that the beauty of the life of discipleship is that we can always begin again!  If we find that we have been insincere or that our possessions have started to possess us, we can begin again: turning back to Jesus with sincerity and opening our hearts to the poor through almsgiving.  Strengthened by this Eucharist, let us commit ourselves once again to this good work.

Given at St. Charles Borromeo Parish: Peru, IN – October 10th, 2021

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