Monday, September 7, 2015

Frustrated? Good. Pay attention.

Homily: 23rd Sunday of Ordinary Time – Cycle B
          When I returned to Guatemala to work on my Spanish skills a couple of years ago, I went back to the same place where I had studied initially while I was in the seminary.  I remember that one of the things that struck me about my return visit was how frustrating life seemed be for the Guatemalan people.  All of the infrastructure things that make our lives here relatively comfortable—things like, good roads, new cars, convenience stores, etc.—are relatively underdeveloped there (if they’re even developed at all).  I imagined that this meant that their daily lives are probably filled with frustrations as they try to accomplish even what I might consider to be the simplest tasks; because, for example, maybe the electricity shut off, or the gas station was out of fuel, or the road washed out in the heavy rain last night.  They, I supposed, are a people very familiar with frustration.
          On some level, however, all of us are familiar with frustration in one form or another.  When your pen runs out of ink, or your coupon is expired, or you leave your leftovers on the table at the restaurant… these are all examples of how we experience frustrations even in the smallest things of our daily lives. Now, as weird as this may seem, I want to propose to you that all of those frustrations have a purpose.  “A purpose?  Father, frustrations are things that get in the way of accomplishing other things.  In other words, they get in the way of fulfilling a purpose, so how could they themselves have a purpose?”  Believe it or not, frustrations are meant to be a signal to us that something isn’t right.  In other words, much in the same way that the pain that we feel in our hand when we touch a hot stove has as its purpose to warn us that we are doing something to harm ourselves, so too frustrations have as their purpose to remind us that the world is “out of order”. 
          Why do we need to be reminded that the world is “out of order”?  Well, because our souls long for things to be “in order”.  Let’s think about this for a second: if being “out of order” was the way things were supposed to be, then we wouldn’t get frustrated because everything would seem to be just as it was supposed to be.  For example, in a world where “out of order” is the way things are supposed to be, if I were to blowout a tire on my car during a trip I wouldn’t get frustrated because I would be able to say to myself “Well, I expected this to happen because that’s how the world works.”  But “out of order” is not the “order” of things, and so we become frustrated when “out of order” things happen.  We instinctively know that “out of order” isn’t right and so we experience discomfort when we encounter it as a sign to remind us that it isn’t right.
          And this is so important for us, and here’s why.  You see, when I think about it, I find that there are two basic ways that we deal with frustration: 1) we confront it and try to overcome it (that is, we try to put back “in order” what is “out of order”) or 2) we resign ourselves to being frustrated and thus give up on trying to overcome it altogether (in other words, we accept that being frustrated with “out of order” is the only way it can be).  Because there are so many things that are outside of our control in this world, we more often than not deal with frustration in the second way that I described.  The danger of this is that, if we are constantly facing frustrations, we might quickly lose hope that anything really ever could be “in order” again.  This can lead us into apathy, which numbs our sense of frustration, thus causing us to forget that there is an ideal “order” for which we should be striving, and “out of order” becomes the “way things are supposed to be”.
          In the first reading, we heard an encouraging proclamation from Isaiah.  In his proclamation he is talking about how God is coming to vindicate his people from their enemies and he is using terms of restoration: that is, of restoring things that are “out of order” so as to put them back “in order”.  In other words, Isaiah is saying that when God’s vindication comes things that had been out of order—like eyes that are blind, ears that cannot hear, legs that cannot be used for jumping, and tongues that cannot speak—will be restored to order—for the blind will see, the deaf will hear, the lame will leap, and the mute will speak.  He proclaimed this to them so that they wouldn’t become resigned to accept what they couldn’t change and thus become apathetic to how “out of order” everything was.  In God’s eyes, it was better for the people to have a healthy sense of frustration, for that would keep them longing for the order that he planned to restore for them; and so would strengthen their faith.
          As Christians we know that God sent his Son Jesus to vindicate us from our enemies and thus to restore order to the world; and the stories recorded for us in the Gospels are meant to support this claim.  Today we heard of how Jesus opened the ears of a man who was deaf and of how he freed the tongue of that same man who also had a speech impediment.  This was a sign that Jesus had come to vindicate God’s people as he put back “in order” that which was “out of order” in this man.  In this we also see that, when Jesus brings restoration, he makes it personal.  What I mean is this: instead of healing this man in front of the whole crowd so that everyone could see, he takes the man aside, away from the crowd, before he heals him.  Jesus’ interest was in restoring to this man what he, perhaps, never had—the ability to hear and to speak—and not in making a scene in front of the crowd.  In this way he shows us that he wants to meet each of us, personally, so as to put back “in order” what is “out of order” in our lives: thus freeing us from what oppresses us and restoring us to fullness of life.
          Therefore, my brothers and sisters, let us not be afraid to bring our life’s biggest frustrations to Jesus, because these are the things most “out of order” either in our lives or in the world and Jesus wants to restore them to order for us.  And let us hold on to hope: the hope we have in the fact that Jesus has vindicated us; and that the world of perfect order that our hearts long for—the kingdom of God—will come to us when Jesus comes again to make all things new.

Given at All Saints Parish: Logansport, IN – September 6th, 2015

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