Monday, August 5, 2019

Experiences over things? All things are vanity!


Homily: 18th Sunday in Ordinary Time – Cycle C
“I prefer experiences over things.”  If you’re of the millennial generation, you’ve probably said this phrase before.  If you are of an older generation, you might be looking with a bit of puzzlement trying to understand what I just said.  “Experiences over things” is a trend among the younger generation in which individuals focus less on acquiring things than on acquiring experiences.  In more practical terms, this means that folks of the younger generation are more likely to save up to purchase an “igloo building experience in northern Alaska” than to put a down payment on a bungalow in the suburbs.
For those of older generations, this trend flies in the face of what they grew to know and value.  For them, life following two World Wars and the Great Depression was a life of seeking normalcy and stability; and nothing says “normalcy and stability” than a 9-5 job, a decent house on a plot of land, 2.35 kids, and a dog.  For them, “experiences” involved going to the lake house to break out of the “normalcy” a bit: exchanging one set of things for another set of things... except that this set of things had a lake next to it in which you could enjoy some recreation.
On the surface, our readings today seem like they favor the younger generation.  The wisdom writer, Qoheleth, decries “All things are vanity!” because all of the things that one can acquire through his/her wisdom and hard work ultimately gets left to someone who did not work for it.  “What’s the point of acquiring all of these things,” Qoheleth seems to say, “if ultimately they will all pass through to someone else’s hands?”  You can almost hear him say, “Why not spend the fruits of your labor on experiences, which you will always keep with you?”  And then Jesus, with his parable recounted for us in our Gospel reading, is even more blunt.  “You fool,” he says of the one who stored up his bountiful harvest for him to enjoy over many years, “You fool, this night your life will be demanded of you; and the things you have prepared, to whom will they belong?”  Again, you can almost hear him saying, “Why didn’t you spend the fruits of your labor on experiences, which you will always keep with you, instead of on storing up things, which you will lose in the blink of an eye?”  I think, however, that this would be a misreading of these texts.  In fact, I think that these texts have something to say to all of us, in spite of that which we prefer: experiences or things.
If we think just a little more, we can see that even the pursuit of experiences over things is also “vanity”.  These, too, will one day fade into nothing; and the only thing that can be handed onto anyone else are fleeting Instagram photos, providing a filtered documentary of the experience.  No, it seems that, because none of us truly knows when our lives will be “demanded” of us, a life spent solely on seeking to acquire things or experiences “is vanity and a great misfortune”.
Does this mean, however, that we should never seek to acquire things or experiences?  The answer, of course, is “no”.  It, quite obviously, is incredibly difficult to do something like raise a family without a stable roof over your head.  Thus, pursuit of a house that you can call your own is a necessary (if not noble) thing.  Similarly, it is quite difficult to grow as a person if you remain isolated in your own culture and experience.  Thus, seeking experiences of different cultures which can help you to become more “well-rounded” as a person is, too, a necessary (if not noble) thing.  The problem arises, however, when we begin to pursue these as ends in themselves.
Having just begun a family, it is a noble and necessary thing to save up for a down payment on a bungalow in the suburbs.  Having acquired it, however, it becomes vanity then to seek a bigger house than is necessary: solely for the purpose of acquiring it.  Similarly, it is one thing to take a vacation with friends to learn about Eskimo culture—its customs and values—and another thing take a vacation for the sole purpose of building an igloo.  In the former form of both cases, the thing/experiences were a means to an end (providing for one’s family/growing as human beings), while in the latter form of both cases, the things/experience became ends in themselves (the house for the sake of having it and the experience for the sake of experiencing it).
Our Lord’s cautionary tale today is a reminder to us to remain focused on the things for which we will one day have to answer when our lives are demanded of us.  Clearly, we will not be judged more positively for the quantity of things or experiences that we acquired in this world.  Rather, we will be judged for how we used those things/experiences to further the building of God’s kingdom.  Remember that, in Matthew’s Gospel, Jesus is recorded as saying, “When you did these things for the least of my brethren, you did it to me.”  And Saint Paul, in his first letter to the Corinthians, says “faith, hope, and love remain, these three.”  Therefore, when we live our lives as if only faith, hope, and love remain and so use the things and experiences we acquire to serve the least of these and grow as persons and in communion with God and one another, then our acquisition of things and experiences become means towards the end for which we will answer and, thus, noble and worthy of our pursuit.  If we live otherwise, however, our pursuit of things/experiences risks becoming an end in itself and, thus, “vanity and a great misfortune”.
Our parish’s Haiti ministry is a great example of pursuing things/experiences as means to an end: the end of solidarity with our brothers and sisters who are suffering and efforts to relieve it; as well as experiencing the joy and freedom that their simplicity of life affords us.  In other words, we are not in this so as to take for our own benefit, but rather to give of ourselves and to receive what they offer.  This is NOT vanity, but a noble and worthy endeavor.  How good it is, therefore, that we celebrate this with Fr. Silvio this weekend.
Friends, as we begin to wrap up our summer vacations—themselves often opportunities for acquiring things/experiences as ends in themselves—let us allow these readings to interpret them for us: Were they, in fact, opportunities to grow as persons, to build God’s kingdom, or to enter more deeply into communion with God and with others? Or were they, in fact, vanity: ends that we pursued for their own sakes?  If the former: good!  Give thanks to God for the grace of this growth.  If the latter: well, humbly acknowledge that you missed the mark and seek to turn your pursuit of things/experiences into means towards the ends for which you will one day answer: the building of God’s kingdom of love in truth here on earth.
Given at Saint Mary’s Cathedral: Lafayette, IN – August 4th, 2019

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